Finding what you Want Means realizing what you don’t

Everyone wants to be perfect in their life, you too; right? To be perfect you have to know what you want. Yes, it is completely normal if you want to know what you want to do in life. Go ahead with this article to explore more about yourself. Let’s begin!

Remember these few things if you’re confused what to do with your life:

Try to manage yourself with uncomfortable situations. You may set your goal/dream which you want to fulfill but sometimes money is a big factor. To complete that you need to fix a future plan. Can’t figure out the whole future? Don’t worry; life is full of good and bad twists. We don’t know what’s coming next in our life. So enjoy what you have right now.

Disturbance and uncertainty in life will come and go, so without giving up go ahead with it. Remember age is just a number. There is no time fixed to start something new. Take new decisions and experiment to find something good. Write down your personal interests, your hobbies, dreams and revise that regularly. Pamper yourself by doing some exercise, yoga, meditation. Physical/Mental health both is important to know your personal likings.

Focus on something new if you’re frustrated. Surround yourself with some good and positive people. Spending time with friends and family is helpful. They will give you advice what to do and what not.

Try to follow these. After realizing what you want you’ll make sure what you don’t.

Wondering what to do when you don’t know what to Say!

If you don’t know what to say then appreciate and sum up what they are saying. Sometimes reactions are also good to reflect your emotion. Don’t behave rude because it will create a bad impression. Speak few and short words with smile.

Decide your words before you speak because if the person has some bad tendencies then you have to limit yourself. Throw an open question. Actually there is no rule for this. It is completely depend on you and the person you are speaking with. Just follow these few things.

Want to know the reasons you’re not getting what you want?

Yes, it is quite hard to know what you want because our mind is very complex and are constantly changing. Here are some reasons you need to know:

You are not satisfied and you don’t care with what you have. You want something more and when you lose that moment you regret. Live happily your every moment!
You did not ask for it and didn’t try it. Another reason is that you are confused and you don’t know your purpose in life
Sometimes you’ll not get something because the right time is coming. You think it is too difficult, it’s better to leave without wasting any time. So keep calm and don’t give up!
Sometimes you are worried and afraid about what other people will think

There are some questions that will help to find your life purpose!

If you’re still confused try to ask yourself these:

How you can change your life within 2-3 years?
What are you grateful for?
How much time do you spent by thinking what others will say?
What makes you happy/unique and gives positive/negative thoughts?
How will you achieve what you want if money was not a big factor?
What are you passionate about and ask your career/health goals?
Are you happy with your relationship?
How dedicated are you to make changes in life to get what you want?
What is your heart telling you to do?
The lifestyle you’re living with is it enhances your mental/physical/spiritual wellbeing?
If today was your last day, is there anything you’ll regret?
How can you become a better person? Whom you admire the most?
Are you living a meaningful life? What inspires you the most?